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Your social media followers aren't really yours (here's how to fix it)
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In this edition, and every, edition you can expect actionable email marketing, social media, and lead generation strategies…
…and to get at least 1% better at generating more of the right type of leads.
Social Media Marketing
How to Turn Your Social Media Followers Into Real Business Assets
Here's a wake-up call that might sting a little: those thousands of Instagram followers you've been bragging about? They're not really yours. I know, I know – it hurts to hear. But stick with me because I'm about to show you how to fix this massive blind spot that's probably costing you deals right now.
Social media platforms are like that friend who lets you crash on their couch – it's nice while it lasts, but you're always at their mercy. Algorithms change overnight, platforms disappear (RIP Vine), and suddenly your "audience" of 10,000 followers sees maybe 200 of your posts. That's not a business strategy; that's digital Russian roulette.
I've helped countless real estate agents and mortgage brokers transform their social media presence from a numbers game into a lead-generating machine. The secret? Converting that rented audience into an owned audience – people who actually want to hear from you and aren't at the mercy of Mark Zuckerberg's latest algorithm update.
The DM Strategy That Actually Works (And Why Most Agents Screw It Up)
Let me tell you about one of my clients, Sarah, who was drowning in social media but starving for actual leads. She had 8,000 Instagram followers but was getting maybe one inquiry per month. One month! Can you believe that shit?
The problem wasn't her content – it was solid. The problem was she was treating social media like a billboard instead of a conversation starter. That's when I introduced her to the personal DM strategy, and everything changed.
Here's what I had her do: send a direct message to every single new follower. Not some generic "Thanks for following!" nonsense, but a real, personal message that actually adds value.
The template I gave her looked like this:
"Hey [Name]! Just noticed you followed me – thanks! I'm Sarah, and I help people navigate the crazy [City] housing market. I send out a weekly newsletter with insider tips and market updates that most agents won't share. Want me to add you to the list?"
Simple, right? But here's the kicker – it worked like gangbusters. Sarah started converting 45% of her new followers into newsletter subscribers. Forty-five percent! That's nearly one out of every two people who followed her.
The key is making it personal and valuable. Don't just ask for their email – tell them exactly what they'll get in return. People are smart; they know when you're trying to sell them something. But when you're genuinely offering value, they'll practically throw their email address at you.
Now, I get it. DMing every new follower sounds like a full-time job. That's why I always tell my clients to hire a virtual assistant for this. You can find someone for $5-7 an hour who can handle this outreach professionally. It's literally the best money you'll spend on your marketing.
The Pre and Post-CTA Game That Most Agents Miss Completely
This is probably the simplest strategy in my playbook, but it's criminally underused. I call it the "anticipation sandwich" – you tease your newsletter content before you send it, then promote it after it goes out.
I had one mortgage broker, Mike, who was struggling to get people to sign up for his newsletter. His content was great – market insights, rate predictions, first-time buyer tips – but nobody knew about it. So we implemented this simple two-post strategy.
Every Tuesday, Mike would post something like: "Tomorrow's newsletter is going to cover the three mortgage mistakes that cost buyers an average of $15,000. Want early access? Link in bio to subscribe!"
Then, every Thursday, he'd follow up with: "Yesterday's newsletter just dropped! We broke down those costly mortgage mistakes I mentioned. Missed it? Subscribe here so you don't miss the next one."
The before-and-after approach creates FOMO (fear of missing out) and gives people two chances to subscribe. Mike saw his subscriber growth increase by 300% just from this simple change.
The magic is in the specificity. Don't just say "great tips coming up" – tell them exactly what they'll learn and why it matters. "The three neighborhoods where home values are about to explode" hits different than "market updates," you know?
Why Every Single Post Should Include a Newsletter Mention (Even When It Feels Pushy)
I know what you're thinking – "Won't I annoy people if I mention my newsletter in every post?" Let me answer that with a question: would you rather annoy some random followers or miss out on converting potential clients?
Here's the thing I've learned working with hundreds of agents: people need to see your call-to-action multiple times before they act. Marketing research shows it takes 7-8 touchpoints before someone makes a decision. If you're only mentioning your newsletter once in a while, you're leaving money on the table.
One of my clients, Jessica, was terrified of being "too salesy." She'd mention her newsletter maybe once a month, and her growth was painfully slow. I convinced her to include a subtle newsletter mention in every post for 30 days – just to test it.
The results? Her subscriber count doubled. Doubled! And guess what? She didn't lose a single follower. In fact, people started commenting things like "Finally signed up for your newsletter – love the content!"
The key is making it feel natural and valuable, not pushy. Here are some examples that work:
Instagram Story: "Quick market update here, but I dive deeper in my weekly newsletter – link in bio!"
TikTok: "Want more real estate tips like this? I send out a newsletter every Tuesday with the good stuff!"
Facebook: "This topic deserves a deeper dive – covered it in last week's newsletter. DM me if you want the signup link!"
See how none of these feel aggressive? You're just letting people know where they can get more value. That's not pushy – that's helpful.
The Lead Magnet Strategy That Turns Browsers Into Subscribers
This is where things get fun. A lead magnet is basically a valuable freebie you give away in exchange for an email address. It's like digital bait, but instead of catching fish, you're catching potential clients.
I always tell my clients to create a new lead magnet every quarter. Why? Because different people are motivated by different things, and you want to cast a wide net. Plus, it keeps your content fresh and gives you new things to promote.
Let me share some lead magnets that absolutely crushed it for my clients:
"The Ultimate First-Time Buyer Checklist" – This simple PDF got one of my agents 400 new subscribers in two weeks. People love checklists because they make complex processes feel manageable.
"5 Staging Secrets That Sell Homes 40% Faster" – Video content performs incredibly well. One client created a 10-minute video walking through these tips and saw his subscriber rate triple.
"The Hidden Costs of Buying a Home in [City]" – Local, specific content always wins. This guide helped a mortgage broker become the go-to expert in his area.
The promotion strategy is just as important as the content. I have my clients add their lead magnet to their bio, post about it weekly, and include it in their Stories with interactive elements like polls or swipe-up links.
Here's a pro tip: align your lead magnet with your newsletter content. If your newsletter focuses on investment properties, your lead magnet should be something like "The Beginner's Guide to Real Estate Investing in [City]." This way, subscribers know exactly what to expect from your ongoing content.
The Technical Stuff That Actually Matters (Don't Worry, It's Simple)
Look, I'm not going to bore you with a bunch of technical jargon, but there are a few tools that'll make your life infinitely easier. I always recommend starting with something simple like Mailchimp. They're user-friendly, reasonably priced, and handle all the heavy lifting.
The signup process needs to be brain-dead simple. I've seen agents lose subscribers because their form asked for too much information. Name and email – that's it. You can get more details later once they trust you.
And please, for the love of all that's holy, make sure your newsletter actually delivers value. I've seen too many agents build massive lists and then send out generic market reports that nobody reads. Your newsletter should feel like insider information, not a press release.
Why This Matters More Than Your Follower Count
Here's the harsh reality: social media followers are like fair-weather friends. They're there when the algorithm gods smile upon you, but they vanish when the winds change. Email subscribers, on the other hand, are like your ride-or-die crew. They chose to hear from you directly, which means they're already more invested in what you have to say.
I've seen agents with 2,000 email subscribers generate more business than agents with 20,000 social media followers. Why? Because email subscribers are warmer leads. They've already shown interest by giving you their most valuable asset – their attention.
Plus, you control the relationship. No algorithm can hide your emails (well, except spam filters, but that's another conversation). When you send a newsletter, it goes directly to their inbox. That's powerful stuff.
Your Next Steps (Because Knowledge Without Action Is Useless)
Start DMing new followers today. Even if it's just five people, start the habit. Create a simple template and use it consistently.
Plan your pre and post-CTA posts for next week. Pick one piece of valuable content for your newsletter and create the anticipation around it.
Choose one lead magnet idea from this article and create it this month. It doesn't need to be perfect – it just needs to provide value.
Most importantly, commit to the long game. Building an owned audience takes time, but it's the most valuable asset you can create in your business. Every email subscriber is a potential client who's already shown interest in what you do.
Stop playing by someone else's rules. Start building an audience that you actually own, and watch your business transform from a social media hustle into a sustainable, profitable machine. Your future self will thank you.
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